There Comes a Time

There comes a time in the lives of many when they have to accept the reality of the matter. We are not in control of anyone other than ourselves. It is such a relief not to feel as though you must take care of others, do for others, know what others need, or try to fix things others have messed up.

I am fully aware of when I am trying to control something that is out of my control. Depending upon the situation, sometimes they way people treat you will let you know you need to ease up. You need to let go and let them, or God, whichever comes first.

So many of us think we know what is good for others, but cannot begin to do what we need to do for ourselves. It is so frightening. There does come a time when you have to know it is wrong to interfere, to suggest, to lay claim to responsibilities that belong to others.

Let now be the time you stop getting involved in the affairs of others.