Dr. Boyce Watkins asked the question, "Why Aren't Black Women Getting Married?"
Black women are not getting married because many of them are not marriageable. Marriage means to "come to an agreement." Be honest, how many black women you know that are agreeable? Not many. Most of them can't even agree with themselves. Their fickle lifestyles and jacked up belief systems keeps them single.
Black women have a reputation for being superwomen, when in fact many of us rarely finish anything. Our children look good but are emotionally deprived. They live with us, but as soon as we can we blame the man for their lack of morals, values, and self-respect. These things can be taught by either parent. The one that is present has to take up that responsibility.
Black women are not getting married because they don't want to. They have everything else they claim to want, but a man. They don't want to agree. They want their way and that is not what marriage is about.
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