Showing posts with label hoping. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hoping. Show all posts

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Giving Up On Love

Sometimes when people find out they have contributed to their own demise when it comes to the love affairs, marriages, relationships, they have been in, they decide to give up on love all together. These people are lazy and most likely unwilling to accept their role in the loss of love.

Many folk love to blame other people for their unhappiness. To find out that they too have caused much of their own suffering sends some into hiding. This is not the answer. The answer to clean up your act. Accept responsibility for your actions and face yourself and your life head.

Instead of running from the life you've created, recognized just like you created the bad, you can also create a good life for yourself. Learn to love you and you will get the love you desire.

Monday, February 8, 2010

Still Married

Well, according to my lawyer, the fact the year is wrong on our marriage license means nothing in regards to whether the marriage is legal or not. She said, "That is a minor technicality."

So, the "what if," was put to rest.

My husband said, "Oh well, I thought I was going to get out of this."

I told him, "Dear, no one is holding you. You can leave whenever you want."

"If I get a divorce, are you going to give half of what you get when you make it big?"

"No," I said.

"Well, I'm not going anywhere."

It is so good to know you have someone who believes in you. :)