New families need time to develop patterns, rituals, and customs of their own. Many people do not understand this and invite issues into their lives that are unnecessary and can possibly cause harm to the family.
It is okay to want to share what you have. Generosity is a very important part of developing a well-rounded life, but we must also take into account what our immediate family needs are and do what we can not to tarnish the families ability to build a foundation by bringing in outside factors.
These outside factors can almost be anything, but are most often, adulterous relationships, unwanted children, meddling family members, and noisy friends.
Make sure things are tight before you bring others into the family fold.
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