I was married 20 1/2 years on December 25th. Unfortunately, longevity doesn't necessarily mean perfect. Even though I'm committed to the marriage, commitment to the relationship is a little harder. By that I mean, the day-to-day relationship issues. Some things become obvious that they are not going to change and you really do have to make up your mind what you are going to address.
After 20 1/2, some subjects really do get old. That's when love does not fail, if it is at the core of the union. Love allows us to look over, let slide, put on the back burner, or we may feel really generous and ignore the infraction all together.
The next time the marriage gets a boo boo, put some love on it.
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