Doing the right thing because it is the right thing to do is the best way to live your life. Unfortunately, most people do what is right for them and when things don't turn out like they thought they would, they want to blame others.
Self-centered behavior will most often lead you down a lonely path of self-destruction. Living a life of wanting immediate gratification with no regard to the thoughts and feelings of others will insure you will have a hard time with relationships.
Do the right thing. Just do the right thing.