We find out too late what our mothers meant when they told us we were too young to know what love means. So many of us rush into relationships with little boys, then when they break our hearts, we hold on to the ache and some carry it for the rest of their lives.
When you are single, there is always going to be a level of a person you are not aware of, especially if they are trying to win you over.
What single women need to know is you don't know men, you have to learn who they are because of their maleness.
Maleness is what causes many women to be turned off by men. Because of our femaleness, which is viewed as the opposite of maleness, we have a hard time relating to them. It is our duty, (as is theirs) to accept the difference and instead of the disrepect, dismissal and sometimes abhoration of the difference, we much embrace it. We do this by asking questions, instead of making assumptions, or going on our intuition. We must read books written by men, about men. But most of all, we must never forget the human component and lead with compassion, understanding and a sense of awe that will lead to joy and a happy relationship.
No comments:
Post a Comment